Who are you?
There may have been periods in your life where you have played a different role according to various situations.
As you grew from young child to adult there would be many defining moments that shaped your identity.
Deep down, how do you define yourself?
What are you really like?
As you progressed through adolescence, it is possible that you tried on different character traits as you modeled yourself on peers or adults that surrounded you. When one fitted in with your beliefs, like a well made coat, you kept it. Even the most well made coat can become threadbare with constant use over the years and beliefs can also be outgrown or no longer serve us well.