An elder was teaching a young boy to recognize his inner self. He told the young boy, ” I have this fight going on inside me….. it is terrible, like a fight between two wolves. One wolf is evil. Full of anger, arrogance, resentment, envy, greed, lies, ego, superiority, false pride and self-doubt and self-pity.”
“The other wolf is good. This one is loving, peaceful, full of joy and compassion, hope, kindness, serenity, truthfulness and generosity. Everyone, including you has this same fight inside.”
The young boy looked at the old man and after a moment of deep thought, asked the elder, “Which wolf wins?”
To which the elder replied, “The one you feed.”
When we feed either wolf, or our mindset, we also strengthen the neural networks within us. So if we are in a negative or fixed mindset most of the time, then that’s the one that gets fed. Likewise if it’s a growth or positive mindset.
How can we tell which is which?
A person with a fixed mindset is more likely to believe that success is achieved by innate talent. They will make excuses that they are not good at being creative, artistic, sporting and so on…and will often seek to hide or disguise their flaws. They make themselves familiar with failure and use words like “I wish……”
On the other hand, a person with a growth mindset believes that through determination and hard work, success can and will be achievable. They seek opportunities to develop their creative, artistic, sporting skills and will create a “to do” list to address their flaws. A person with this mindset will see setbacks as challenges to overcome.
So feed the mindset that you want.
Have a vision and set some achievable goals.
Love what you do…….